Steve Ralls is director of communications for Parents, Families and Friends of Lesbians and Gays and is a widely quoted source on lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender issues.

Steve has been widely quoted in the media, including in The New York Times, USA Today, The Washington Post, The Los Angeles Times, The Associated Press and other national media outlets. He has appeared on CNN, National Public Radio, CBS News on LOGO and on hundreds of local radio and television news stations across the country. He has also coordinated coverage of LGBT issues on national newsmagazines, including 60 Minutes, PrimeTime Live and 20/20, and worked to place hundreds of positive editorials on LGBT topics, including more than a dozen editorials in The Washington Post.

A recognized authority on the federal “Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell” ban on lesbian and gay military personnel, he spent more than 8 years with Servicemembers Legal Defense Network, as the group’s director of communications, before joining PFLAG. In that capacity, he placed hundreds of media stories each year and served as a primary spokesperson on the military’s ban. He is also a regular contributor to The Bilerico Project, The Progressive Media Project, and Ambiente Magazine.

Blog Entries by Steve Ralls

Quest for an Inquest as a Mother Searches for her Son Abroad

1 Comments | Posted November 9, 2008 | 07:46 PM (EST)


Whenever an American is missing abroad, the news cycle can sometimes seem overwhelming. The most notable case, of course, is that of Natalee Holloway, a young American woman who went missing in Aruba, and the search for whom saturated the U.S. and international media for months on end. From profiles...

Read Post

What Will Powell's Endorsement Mean for "Don't Ask, Don't Tell" and Military Families?

12 Comments | Posted October 19, 2008 | 01:15 PM (EST)


General Colin Powell, once considered a prime GOP candidate for the presidency, has endorsed Democratic Senator Barack Obama in the 2008 race for the White House. Saying that he felt his party had moved too far to the right, and citing the appointment of far right Supreme Court justices...

Read Post

Right-Wing Activists Plan Private D.C. Briefing on Gays in the Military

5 Comments | Posted September 30, 2008 | 02:40 PM (EST)


Parents, Families and Friends of Lesbians and Gays (PFLAG) has learned that The Center for Military Readiness, a right-wing activist group based in Michigan, has invited leaders of prominent veterans services organizations to a Washington, D.C. briefing on Thursday that the organization has tried to keep secret. The...

Read Post

Parents Take on a Proposition in the Golden State

2 Comments | Posted September 29, 2008 | 09:00 PM (EST)


As California voters get ready to weigh in, on November 4, on Proposition 8, some unlikely heroes are rising up in the Golden State and speaking out against this outrageous attempt to roll back marriage equality for same-sex couples. All across California, straight allies - and parents, in particular -...

Read Post

Congress to HHS: End the HIV Ban, Once and For All

Posted September 22, 2008 | 03:09 PM (EST)


Earlier this year, Senators John Kerry (D-MA) and Gordon Smith (R-OR), along with Congresswoman Barbara Lee of California, led a successful and historic effort in Congress to finally do away with the antiquated and unnecessary HIV-travel ban. The ban, which prevents HIV+ travelers and immigrants from entering the United...

Read Post

What the Media Missed in a Plan for Repeal

Posted September 19, 2008 | 09:56 AM (EST)


Anyone who read the headlines this week about Senator Barack Obama's support for ending the federal "Don't Ask, Don't Tell" ban on lesbian, gay and bisexual troops may have come away with an (inaccurate) impression that the Democratic presidential candidate has punted the ball back to the armed forces when...

Read Post

Gold, Light, 'Crisis,' and Compassion

Posted September 18, 2008 | 11:01 AM (EST)


Openly gay furniture designer Mitchell Gold is most well-known for lush and plush home decor, but what some in the LGBT community may not be as aware of is his longtime advocacy on important issues- his generous philanthropy to the community and his work as founder of Faith...

Read Post

What Governor Palin Needs to Know About 'Love'

Posted September 7, 2008 | 08:28 PM (EST)


Alaska Governor Sarah Palin has made history as the first mother to be on the Republican presidential ticket, and she has the potential to bring a new perspective on issues that impact America's children to Washington and the White House. Indeed, since her introduction to the nation last week, Governor...

Read Post

Elaine Donnelly's Radical Cultural Change

Posted August 19, 2008 | 03:17 PM (EST)


Right-wing "military" activist Elaine Donnelly, fresh off of her critically disastrous appearance before the House Armed Services Committee, is again maligning the professionalism of our troops, the capabilites of military commanders and the common-sense of the American public.

In an August 14 op-ed in the Chicago Tribune, Donnelly...

Read Post

Where's Aeryn? A Mother's Search for the Truth

Posted August 13, 2008 | 02:57 PM (EST)


Kathy Gilleran is a mother on a mission: To find out the truth about what happened to her son.

Aeryn Gilleran, who was 34 at the time, disappeared in Vienna, in October 2007, while working for the United Nations International Development Organization (UNIDO). Alarmed by the news that her son...

Read Post

A Six-Figure Solution Missing One Common-Sense Addition

Posted August 5, 2008 | 09:39 AM (EST)


A picture may be worth a thousand words, but the picture on the ground in Iraq is quickly making military personnel who can translate Arabic priceless.

This morning's Christian Science Monitor reports that the Army is preparing to offer a staggering $150,000 retention bonus to service members who are...

Read Post

Straight But Not Narrow in the House

Posted July 23, 2008 | 10:36 PM (EST)


In what will surely be remembered as a pivotal moment in our country's quest to live up to its promise of "liberty and justice for all," the House Armed Services Committee's Subcommittee on Personnel held a hearing on Wednesday to debate the federal "Don't Ask, Don't Tell" ban on lesbian,...

Read Post

A Military Mom "Tells" Her Story

Posted July 17, 2008 | 08:49 AM (EST)


For almost a decade, I have had the great honor and privilege of working alongside some of the best and most courageous men and women serving in our nation's military. These brave men and women sacrifice, every day, in unimaginable ways. And for the service members I have come to...

Read Post

A Turning Point for Troops & Their Families

Posted July 14, 2008 | 03:23 PM (EST)


Next Wednesday -- July 23 -- may well mark a critical turning point in the fight to repeal "Don't Ask, Don't Tell," the federal ban on open service that has cost our country the talent and skills of more than 12,000 patriotic Americans and cost tax-payers an estimated $363 million.

...
Read Post

Putting Faith in All Families

Posted July 11, 2008 | 01:47 PM (EST)


For the lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender community, the mere words 'faith-based' can often cause alarm . . . especially coming from the federal government or elected officials. So many LGBT Americans have suffered rejection, discrimination and opposition from some corners of the faith community that it's understandable when they...

Read Post

A Platform We Can Believe In, Too

Posted July 8, 2008 | 10:57 AM (EST)


Could this be the year that every American family sees itself reflected in the platform of a major political party? And if so, what would an all-inclusive set of ideals mean for America's lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender citizens and their loved ones and friends?

The Democratic National Committee and...

Read Post

The World As It Should Be: What Michelle Really Said

Posted June 27, 2008 | 12:39 PM (EST)


Words matter, and Michelle Obama is a woman of powerful words.

Last night, in a passionate address to the Democratic National Committee's Gay and Lesbian Leadership Council, Mrs. Obama delivered a rousing call-to-equality and put her husband on record as a fighter for the full equality of lesbian, gay, bisexual...

Read Post

An End to Our Mourning

Posted June 26, 2008 | 04:01 PM (EST)


"My mother," Dr. Maya Angelou once wrote, "said I must always be intolerant of ignorance."

In America today, that could keep one very busy indeed.

A poll released this afternoon, examining the seemingly ever-shifting loyalties of Senator Hillary Clinton's presidential supporters (of which I have been an enthusiastic...

Read Post

I Love You; Please Go Away

Posted June 23, 2008 | 09:04 AM (EST)


Several years ago, I attended a poetry slam at New York's Bowery Poetry Club. One of the presenting poets, whose name now escapes me, tore up the competition with a biting poem about an obsessive lover who cannot tear herself apart from her boyfriend, but is convinced she simply...

Read Post

A VP Pick We Can All Believe In

Posted June 20, 2008 | 03:57 PM (EST)


In the midst of rumors about the unacceptable (Nunn), the uninterested (Gore), and the uninspiring-to-some (Edwards) has emerged a quiet speculation about a truly exceptional possibility for Barack Obama's vice presidential pick.

Unlike former Georgia Senator Sam Nunn, who invented and long-propped up the military's "Don't Ask,...

Read Post

Bloggers Index›